"I'm not asking you for anything. When I say I love you, it's not because I want you, or because I can't have you, and it has nothing to do with me. I love what you are. What you do. How you try. I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you, and I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You are a hell of a woman. You're the one."
I knew what it was from, of course, but nobody else guessed. Penn was pretty shocked and impressed when he heard it was from Buffy the Vampire Slayer. He'd commented to us when we were having our cake in the green room about how great our vows were, so he knew my poem (I did "i carry your heart" by e.e. cummings) but didn't have a clue about Craig's.