January 13th, 2017

eurydice james: pepperlandgirl4

Friday Five

In an effort to post more often, I'm doing these thefridayfive things.

1) What would/did you name your first child?
ANSWER: Alicia Marie. I had a massive spreadsheet of names that Craig and I went back and forth crossing stuff off of, until we finally settled on one. In all honesty, he loved the name more than I did (the ones I loved most tended to be a little too androgynous or unusual for him), but I can't imagine one more fitting now. The middle name is both a family tradition in mine and a variation on his mother's first name.

2) What do you think makes a good name for a baby?
ANSWER: Easy to pronounce, easy to spell, no obvious ways to tease the child about it.

3) What do you think makes a bad name for a baby?
ANSWER: Anything you have to explain. Or spend too long having to justify.

4) What's a name that you love, but would never give a child? Why?
ANSWER: I have been madly in love with the name Isabeau since I was a teenager, but I'd never use it. People have a tendency to only glance at names, and she'd be saddled with being called Isabelle a lot of the time in error.

5) Did your parents do a good job naming you?
ANSWER: I'm going with no here. I HATED my name growing up. In my whole life, I've only ever met one other woman in this country with my name. It's much more common in Nordic/Scandinavian countries, but here in the US, people look at it and either completely mangle the pronunciation by adding letters that aren't there (because male variants on my name with those letters are more familiar to them) or don't even try. To this day, my name is a conversation piece with strangers. In addition, it's easily distorted to create truly awful nicknames that I was teased with as a child. For decades, I wished I could've been a Laura or an Elizabeth. It's gotten easier as I've aged to appreciate the individuality of my name, and adults are certainly more complimentary about it, but I went through almost thirty years of torture because of it.